I’m No Preacher …

It happens, you know. Compared to a month ago, Dad looks and sounds great. He is SuperMan … he is SuperDad … he is MyHero

But we cannot always control our minds … our fears … our doubts. And Dad had a mini-melt-down this weekend … he wept, thinking, “Maybe this is the best that I am ever going to get?

As Dad was re-telling me this story, he began a low-tone-Al-Pacino chuckle, “But your Mom slapped me back into shape.

Dad knows this … I’m learning it … but maybe you have never heard it. Our struggles … the war within our mind … sometimes are the hardest to wage. You see, the bone will mend … the marriage will heal … the debt will get paid … the image of beauty will shine. But your mind and soul keep screaming: “I cannot deal with this broken arm …” or “I cannot handle my spouse any more … ” or “I am tired of struggling through week by week until the next paycheck …” or “I hate myself … ” What are you supposed to do?

“The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” (2 Cor. 10:4-5)

Paul even says later in the passage that you should not look on the surface of things … but instead, be confident that you belong to Christ. Those doubts, fears, and uncertainties … take captive of them … replace them with hope and faith and excitement of what is to come. As your faith continues to grow, so does God’s ability to use you and your circumstances … including a near-fatal car accident that crushes your bones and paralyzes your spirit. I’m no preacher, but it’s what the Bible says!

From 1 to 60

They were with us on Day 1 … we did not know them at first … one of them is a self-confessed G&G Addict … I suppose the other is in denial ……they are DAngelLove … they have been praying for us since the beginning.

The first week after Dad’s accident … what we call it the ViolentSilence … I received this email from Mrs. DAngelLove:

I read your blog every day and send your dad’s name up to God several times a day. I’m so happy that he is slowly improving. Yes, slow is best.

Do you have any more news on the young skateboarder, [ ... Sk8ter ... ]? I’ve been praying for him several times a day too.

My heart broke with the news of the mother and her four young children. Please drop a little update to let us know how they are doing. I’ve added them to my prayers.

Bless you for all you do. Thanks for helping all of us know how to best pray for your family.

Love, [DAngelLove]

This email, like so many others, had a name but neither a voice nor a face. That uncertainty would soon change:

  • Two weeks ago, we heard the angel’s voice on the phone. Mrs. DAngelLove called and asked whether they could stop by the hospital.
  • Dad and Mom were lucky … they got to meet DAngelLove first … a loving couple who brought hugs, kisses, prayers, smiles and books ( … they are in the BookBusiness ).
  • This weekend, on Day 60, DAngelLove ( … all decked out in heavy coats and warm mittens … ) joined Dad on his walk around the block. If you look closely, you may be able to see them.

DAngelLove, thanks for loving us … even though we were strangers to you.

World, we know there are other angels out there … you have emailed us and written cards and letters … We would love to see you, hear you, or meet you in person … and especially thank you for your love and prayers. Send us a pic or drop us a note.

Here are 1,000 …

… words that is!

That’s Not Right (#6)

That’s not right … a collection of stories, events, and incidents that are just … not right! No. 3 is up right now … yes, it’s about 1:00am … with a “tummy ache” … so here I sit pounding on the computer. I found an example of what happens when an older sister takes advantage of a younger sister. Take a look yourself …

No.3, I know that you cannot read right now, but when you learn … THAT’S NOT RIGHT!

Man to Man

This one is for those late-nite addicts … who will check the ‘puter right before going to bed on a Saturday night … or those early morning freaks … who will be running to church late and flip open the laptop right before they leave the house …

On Friday, Dad (and Mom) had their first car ride together to the EarNoseThroat guys. We have been waiting for this appointment for so long because these are the Geni ( … our plural of genius … ) who will tell us about Dad’s 6th and 7th nerves ( … not “sevens” nerve … ) I will let Dad tell you about the news from the EarNoseThroat team, but I will share with you a little something that Dr. Cutie3 said to Dad … just listen …

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Cutie3: I cannot believe how well you are doing … smiles … Let me say this, and I am not talking to you as doctor to patient, but I am saying this man to man: You are amazing! … smiles and puts hand on Dad’s shoulder … I remember you from the the Trauma Unit and I have to say that you are truly amazing! I am so happy to see you sitting here! … continues to smile …

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That dude is right, Dad. You are amazing! Just ask the World …

G&G Tidbits

Okay. Not pineapple tidbits … but something better! Here is a little taste of some blog-o-rama tidbits to come later this evening or in the morning:
  1. Dad got an interesting report on Friday.
  2. Lots o’ people showed up to surprise Dad this morning (… video coming …)
  3. GuardianAngel1 showed up to surprise Dad this morning (… video coming …)
  4. No. 3 screams “Dad is sooooo mean!” today.
  5. Dad tells me a Kleenix story that is not right!

Check back later for these fun stories.

KindSpirit Finds Glory

Our good friends, SouthernDrawl and JrKatz, lost their father and grandfather on Wednesday evening. I never met KindSpirit, but I am told that he was a very nice man, with a gentle and kind spirit … sometimes grumpy … but aren’t we all? He was a WWII veteran, as well as an eyewear business owner. He would often contribute eyeglasses to those who could not afford them.

SouthernDraw and JrKatz, no one can really give you the answer to why your loved one died, while others live. In fact, this has been one of Dad’s greatest challenges over the past month as he learns the faint and wreteched details about his accident. He shudders at the words: Why? Why? Why? But the question he asks is not the one you think—Why did this happen to me? Instead, he cries, “Why do I get to live, while others have to die?”

The best answer I have for you and for him:
“All praise to the God and Father of our Master, Jesus the Messiah! Father of all mercy! God of all healing counsel! He comes alongside us when we go through hard times, and before you know it, he brings us alongside someone else who is going through hard times so that we can be there for that person just as God was there for us. We have plenty of hard times that come from following the Messiah, but no more so than the good times of his healing comfort—we get a full measure of that, too.” (2 Corinthians 1:3-5) (The Message)

Peace to you on this cold Friday evening … find a family member or friend … grab some hot chocolate … and cuddle up to some good memories of your dad and grandfather. We love you!

That’s Not Right (#5)

That’s not right … a collection of stories, events, and incidents that are just … not right! Cranberries and Dirty Socks …. That’s not right!

WordJr is A-O-K

I spoke with WordSr a few hours ago and WordJr is lookin’ good … alright … A-Okay! The SuperSurgery proceeded without any complications and WordJr may even be able to come home tonight. However, he is begging to stay at the hospital so he can watch cable all night! Go figure … Thanks for your prayers everyone.

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