Recently, I have been doing a lot of thinking about my lovely wife and five kids … When do I have time to think about them? … That’s just it! Prior to last week, I have been detached from them due to some major work constraints. Whoever made the “quality time is better than quantity time” mantra is simply wrong! You need both. So … here is what has been on my mind …
Dear MyBeloved: You are amazing! I keep saying it. I’ve said it many times before. One of these days I’m gonna marry you! Well, today, just might be the day. Wanna git hitched? Seriously, I could not have made it through the past few months without you. Your strength. Your encouragement. Your subtlety. Your faith. Your smile. Your support. Your love. Thanks. BTW, Will you marry me?
Dear
No.1 a/k/a MyPrincess: Just because I have not written about you here at
G&G lately does not mean that I have forgotten about you.
I wrote about you at BPCL instead. Have fun at camp this weekend and remember to make a difference in the world!
Dear No.2 a/k/a DillyBar: Dude, you rock! I cannot understand how you … in less than 2 months … have gotten more stars on SuperMarioWorld and more bananas on DonkeyKong than I got in four years of college. And despite your brain turning to mush from the video games, you are practicing your reading everyday and you are doing a great job! Remember the moral of the story of “The Grasshopper and the Ants”? I am so proud of you Little D!
Dear
No.3 a/k/a AJ: I had a great time on our date last week … even if Hannah Montana /
Miley Cirus was there! And who knew that you could eat a whole tub of popcorn and a
gallon of soda by yourself.
AJ, it’s hard being the middle child (
…middle for now at least…) and I want to thank you for sticking with it.
There’s a reason why we named you Joy!
Dear No.4 a/k/a Faa-fer a/k/a Chee-Chu: Poop goes in the potty! Thanks for all the snuggles this past week. Your beautiful blue eyes melt me. But remember, poop goes in the potty!
Dear No.5 a/k/a “Zeee“: Normal babies don’t get up at 5:00am. Go to sleep!
Dear World: Thanks to the few of you who keep checking back in with G&G. If you remember anything from these posts over the past year, know that your family and friends are what it is all about on this side of the fence. I’m just one struggling Dad trying to find a good balance between work and home. But I am learning that it has nothing to do with the balancing act … it has nothing to do with the teeter-totter of back-and-forth … it has everything to do with living one life! My kids have used many a crayon on a legal brief at home. My kids have slept many a night on the floor of my office. My wife has listened to many a closing and opening argument … and kept awake. Most of my struggles, though, come when these two worlds collide and I react foolishly. I raise my voice. I dig my heels into the sand. And I try to balance two worlds … rather than living in one! My questions to you: Do you need to write a “Dear ____” letter? Do you need to tell someone you love them? Do you live in two worlds? Be strong.